Tuesday, March 21, 2017

February 22, 2017 ~ Transfer 5 Week 2

Hi all!

This week a lot has happened! It's kind of been a blur because so much was going on. I'm not really sure what to tell you about my week. I met a ton of people that know my Grandpa and Grandma Openshaw because of their time living in Peru.

So many great things happened this past week. Yesterday we had a wonderful mission conference with Elder Soares from the Presidency of the Seventy. We talked about so many things. I wrote a ton of questions down at the start of the meeting and I thought they were unrelated but every question was answered. It was cool.

I want to share what I've learned. I know God is in the details of our life. He loves us so much and He loves you. Individually. Personally. He wants the best for you in your life. He knows how you feel and what you sacrifice. He knows your every thought and here your every prayer. Trust in His promises, trust Him and He will help you so much more then if you just try to do things on your own.

I also learned that positivity is one of the keys to a happy life. How can we expect to be negative and stay happy? Those are opposite feelings.

Have an amazing week!
Elder Openshaw

Calle Fuerteventura 4, 2, Oficina 8B
28703 San Sebastián de los Reyes
Madrid, España



February 13, 2017 ~ Transfer 5 Week 1

Hi all!

I got transferred to Barrio 6 (Madrid). Now I wake up and get to see the temple right outside my Piso (apartment) window everyday. It's such a beautiful building. It's such a privilege to have it so close too.

Tuesday, on our way to a lesson we ran into some members who had just arrived to Madrid only 5 days or so early. We got off the metro and the Father shouted "¡Élderes!" It startled me a bit but it was an answer to prayers for them, they had been trying to find anyone that might be able to help them and in the past week or so they hadn't seen anyone who might be able to offer them some "refuge". So we let them know they could call us if they needed more help/directions in the area. This same day we also passed by a family who the élderes had been trying to visit all last transfer and we got in the door and have started talking with them a lot more now =) We have a family home evening (like a family night) with them tonight.

Also on Tuesday, we ate with a French family who are here working. We talked in a mix of Spanish, English and French during dinner haha (my companion speaks German, a little French,  English (learned it on the mission) and Spanish. It was interesting hearing so many different languages. And here in the ward many of the members are from Peru.

It's an amazing feeling when you finding people in the streets who are excited to see you =) most people don't say hi back when you say hi to them but it's cool when people know us and say "¡Élderes!". It's a little different than Oviedo, that rarely happened there.

Funny moment: 
we were running to catch the metro. And the subway whistle sounded which means the doors are closing. And of course I ran faster. And I ran too fast, lost traction and fell flat on my face in front of everyone on the metro and the other Elders. It was pretty funny. I at least helped everyone have a better day. That was right after eating "American" food at a restaurant called Hollywood. It was the best American food I've had outside of the country but still...not up to par.

Saturday we had a family history activity. And I may or may not have gotten bored of listening to them just talk about Family history (it was one of those typical activities) that I went ahead and tried to follow a line of ancestors all the way back to Adam and Eve. I made it after I found a king on the Dalton line. So I took a screenshot of it. I was pretty psyched because I've never been able to go back further than 1500s before.

I'm really enjoying Madrid. It's super fun being back where I started.

I want you to know that I know God lives and that He loves you. He loves me. He loves each of us in our weaknesses. He wants us to improve and as long as we are trying He will be there helping us along the way. Maybe the help doesn't come immediately but it comes. I promise that God answers our prayers because He has answered mine. And many times our answers come through other people. 

Sometimes we expect our answer to be some super strong feeling or some thing that will make us know it is the answer. It usually doesn't happen that way. Usually answers come through our thoughts or feelings. Sometimes they seem like the logical choice that makes sense. I've been praying more to have my desires changed so that I can desire what the Lord wants for my life and I have noticed a difference. 

Have a great week! 
Love you all!
Elder Openshaw


Madrid, Spain Temple













Saturday, March 11, 2017

February 6, 2017 ~ Transfer 4 Week 6 ~ Last Week in Oveido

Hi all!

This week was a great week. We ended up eating a lot of meals with people this week because we were pretty sure I was leaving this transfer. And... it was true. I'm heading to Madrid (Pavones area) and I have the Spain Madrid Temple in my area (as well as parque de retiro where we talked to people every Saturday in the MTC/CCM). I'm sad to leave Oviedo and the awesome people I met here, but I'm also excited for the change and the new area. My biggest fear is that I'm going to get chubby because I hear the church members in Madrid feed the missionaries super well. =) haha

So this week for food we had quite the mixture. 
We had homemade pizza (my favorite), pica pollo and morir soñando (both from the Dominican Republic), and last P-day I had mini-gofres for breakfast. (I will explain all of them =) ). Gofres are basically sugar coated waffles and are super good. The problem with ordering almost anything here in Europe is that the portion sizes are quite a bit smaller and the fact that they were mini-gofres...they ended up being the size of girl scout cookies with a dollop of ice cream the size of a truffle for 1€ more. Not very filling haha =) morir soñando (means "to die dreaming") is basically a sweet milk with chunks of ice and has a lemony flavor to it. It has to be prepared in such a careful way because if you aren't careful the milk and lemon curdle. The Dominican member made it perfectly, it was sooo good. It's usually drank during the hot summers to stay cool (or its made for missionaries because we just love trying new things =) ). Pica pollo is chicken with different spices, quite good. And the pizza was my favorite. The crust ended up tasting like a biscuit and it was super good. It was like being at home =) at Piso (the apartment) we eat "completos" which ended up being hot dogs on French bread as a bun, with avocado, onion and tomato. Really good.

I hope you aren't hungry now =)

This week had its ups and downs but it's amazing how the good stuff sticks so much better in the memory. 

Last transfer Elder Chabot and I prayed specifically that we would find a lady named Mercedes on the same corner that we found her. It didnt happen as we expected it that day but I kept believing that God would answer our prayer and maybe the time just wasn't then. And then we had a miracle happen this last Thursday. I contacted Mercedes in the street without recognizing her and we were able to talk for a bit. It wasn't the same exact corner but it was quite close (only a street or two away). It was amazing to see how our specific prayer was answered in God's own time and in His own way. I know that Heavenly Father loves us individually and that He knows us personally. I know that He is listening to our prayers and that He will answer them. Sometimes the answer is "yes", "no" or "not right now", but he will answer your prayers.

I have felt Heavenly Father's love for me this week when I recognized that He loves us even with all our imperfections. He knows our potential and what and who we can become if we let Him lead us. He doesn't expect us to be perfect so that we can reach that potential. He only expects that we do our best, that we keeping on trying. We just need to be better than the day before and that it good enough. One step at a time. I know He will help us succeed because our loving Heavenly Father wants the best for us.

Funny moments:
Wednesday, we were a little late coming home from a JAS activity (young single adults, there are about 8-10 in the branch). And so we ran a 30 minute walk in 12 minutes so that we could get home on time. The worst part was that we had intercambios so I had all my stuff with me =) the last stretch up the hill was the hardest.

We missed the train going back to Oviedo when we had our pizza with the Núñez family. We were two minutes late and we watched as it arrived.... and then left. We had a nice hour to wait for the next one. Thank goodness for the change I schedule this passt week because we ended up doing companion study while waiting. =)

On Saturday, we passed by an investigator named Bruno who we met last week. We've been calling him and haven't really gotten a straight answer on when he wants to meet. Funny thing is that he wasn't home when we passed by but we saw him arrive home as we left and were down the street. I waved.

Saturday night there was a ton of wind. It blew so hard that it went through our blinds (which are metal slats) and pushed open our window while it was latched. Not only that the wind was blowing in our faces but the heater went out too. Yeah, it was a little cold.

Have a great week!

Elder Openshaw

PS
New companion is from Switzerland, his name is Elder Weiss and he also started his mission in Oviedo. He is 24, just about to go home next transfer (in 6 weeks).

Pictures ~ January 30, 2017


Wallart hanging in the missionaries apartment that each missionary 
who serves in the area signs when they leave.


Church Building in Oveido


Awesome architecture!


YUM!
Chocolatey goodness with ice cream


Overlooking the City of Oveido


Randy and Elder Hale


Randy and Elder Brock


Overlooking the City


View from the Christus statue


A few more missionary friends

January 30, 2017 ~ Transfer 4 Week 5

Hi all!

Last Monday was hard food-wise. We eat a TON! For lunch we eat at a restaurant which was practically buffet and we were stuffed. And we had forgotten we were eating at a member's house that evening. And these members feed us VERY well. The ride on the bus home was quite miserable. We made sure not to repeat that experience today.

This week we had a worldwide conference of missionaries. There have been changes with the schedule allowing for more choice in when we do studies and lunch or dinner. Also Preparation Day has been extended so we end studies at 8:30 am instead of 11am. It's nice having a little more time to do the day to day stuff like keeping the piso (apartment) clean, etc. 
The changes have been great =)

This week has been pretty normal. A lot of lessons that fell through with new people. But also quite a few people we found to teach. There was one man named Bruno who we found while walking back to the train stop. He was in his car and he asked us to get a wheelchair out of the back of his car. We were able to help him out and he's happy to talk with us. He gave us his number and address to go visit with him. It was quite the miracle. Me and my companion have definitely seen the miracles that come from contacting people everyday (we have a goal as a companionship and as a mission to contact/talk with 25 people each everyday). We have found a lot of people to teach.

I want to share my love for Jesus Christ and what He has done for each one of us. I've been reading the New Testament and the more times I read it the better I understand it. And the the Book of Mormon and the Bible hand-in-hand it really helps to understand the principles that God has given us. I love the Savior and I love what He did for me individually and for you. He loved us so much that He suffered so that He could know how we feel and that we can turn to Him for relief. I know that Christ can help us, because He has definitely helped me. We just have to be humble enough to turn to our loving Heavenly Father in prayer and ask for Christ's help. I know that Christ can strengthen us to do hard things.

Matthew 11:28-30
28 ¶ Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

Have a great week!


Elder Openshaw

PS
And to give you a heads up I think I am leaving next transfer. 
We shall find out next week. 

Pictures ~ January 23, 2017 ~ Birthday Week


Out in the country doing service cleaning debris from the property and petting all the animals ;)


Machate made from a lawn mower blade. I hope he didn't use it, but he 
apparently was quite taken by the engineering of it.


Randy's 19th Birthday



Course 1 of their 7 course meal which ended with several desserts. 
WOW!

January 23, 2017 ~ Transfer 4 Week 4

January 23rd, 2017 - BIRTHDAY WEEK REPORT

This week went by really fast, but a ton happened.

Monday, there was an emergency transfer and one of the Elders in the other companionship in our area was getting transferred so we were a trio for a day until Elder Ferguson arrived. We saw some miracles that day, one being that we found 2 people to teach. Everyday we have the goal to talk to 25 people each (it's a mission wide goal) and we didn't have much time at all (30 mins). And we did it. We both talked to 25 people each and received 2 numbers to people who might be interested (we shall find out =) ). It was amazing that we talked to so many so quickly.

Tuesday, started with a full grown man sitting in a baby stroller rolling down the hill we take on the way to the church. It was hilarious. There is a wall on one side and trees in the other and he was using his legs so he wouldn't hit anything. Then we went to a lesson with a family that has interesting beliefs in religion and the role of it. The daughter (age in the 30's) was asking how there can be a God if there is so much bad in the world. And so I challenged her to find out for herself by reading a chapter in the Book of Mormon... the one the came to mind was the wrong one! oops
So this week I got to correct my mistake haha. And the chapter I gave on accident was quite long, oh well. Tuesday was also the best meal I have had in Piso followed by lasagna with members which was super good.

Wednesday, we picked up a shipment of Books of Mormon from a shoe store which was apparently a UPS access point, it was a little weird but I guess that's how they do it here. This day, I also recognized the spirit working through me. There was someone I felt I needed to talk to but right when I approached her she put her phone to her ear. I had already said hi and felt super awkward so I started walking away but felt I still needed to talk to her. Thankfully my companion wasn't scared of the awkward moment I created and got her contact information. That's why we have companions.

Thursday, one of our investigators had her baby! So we probably won't be meeting for a little bit. We had 2 of our 3 lessons this day fail but right before the last lesson of the day I was hungry and I said to Elder Hale, "can we pray and receive food?" The answer is yes. Our last lesson of the day invited us to eat dinner with them without previously talking about eating with them or mentioning it during the lesson. It was cool to see how our Heavenly Father looks out for our simplest wants, it wasn't a big thing but it showed me God was listening to my prayers, no matter how silly my pleas may seem.

Friday, we contacted in a pueblo, Grado (little town). I tried seeing if we could meet with María who Elder Chabot and I found while knocking doors but she wasn't home. We had some great lessons, people willing to do what they need to strengthen their relationship with Christ but some who fear what their parents may think.

Saturday, my birthday. It started out a little crazy. I woke up to footsteps in the hall. I thought it was my companion but I heard him breathing deeply. I was terrified. I am told that I said "Elder Hale will you turn on the light, please" and then I got tackled by the other elders who came to surprise me and make breakfast with us. Elder Hale gave them the keys. Thankfully the elders weren't wearing masks like planned because I don't know how I would have reacted haha =).

We went to go do service in the mountains today at a members house. We helped the husband lower trees down his steep hill using two ropes (after he cut them). Ricardo (the husband) has a machete he made himself out of a mower blade and I took pictures of it because it is super cool. I received a call from my trainer (Elder Chabot), the Packs and a few other elders who surprised me. All of our lessons that day failed but it worked out. I ended up getting a picture next to a huge section of the main park here in Oviedo where they cut out letter to form every day of the year. We had to ask 25-30 youth to move out of the way because they were right in front of it but thankfully they did it nicely and quickly =).

I want to share I quote from Jeffery R Holland in a talk about the Atonement ("Do this in Remembrance of Me") that I really liked. He talks about how we can remember the Savior better and how the sacrament should be a time of reflection and spiritual feelings. He talks about the Savior’s plea to His disciples the night of His suffering in Gethsemane:
"One request Christ made of his disciples on that night of deep anguish and grief was that they stand by him, stay with him in his hour of sorrow and pain. “Could ye not watch with me one hour?” he asked longingly (Matt. 26:40). I think he asks that again of us, every Sabbath day when the emblems of his life are broken and blessed and passed."

I think this quote applies very well to my life. Sometimes I get so distracted from the sacrament and think about anything but the Savior.  His plea to us is to remember Him. Remember Him, think of Him during the sacrament. Think of how we can be a better friend to others or making a new friend that we need. Reaching out as He did. Think of His interactions with others, his miracles, His father and mother - their roles in His life. As members of the Church of Jesus Christ we have committed to remember Him always when we were baptized so that we can have the Spirit with us as a constantly companion. 

My invitation is that we strive to remember the Savior more this week and remember those who are struggling. Do one thing to reach out to someone more than you usually would. 
How can you be a better friend? 
How can you help someone in need? 
Maybe it is a text of encouragement. An act of kindness. I promise you that as you act as the Savior would and remember Him just a little more, you will be blessed with more peace and happiness in your life.

Another great scripture to read: 
Luke 18: 9-14. If you feel like you have no need to repent or that you don't want to change, go for it and read it =) it sure helped me.

9 And he spake this parable unto certain which trusted in themselves that they were righteous, and despised others:
10 Two men went up into the temple to pray; the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican.
11 The Pharisee stood and prayed thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican.
12 I fast twice in the week, I give tithes of all that I possess.
13 And the publican, standing afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner.
14 I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that exalteth himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.


Elder Openshaw